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20 beautiful signs you have a pure heart

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If you have ever been told you have a pure heart or a heart of gold, it’s likely that you have a gift for making people feel loved and accepted.

A pure heart is one of the best qualities to have when making your way through life. There are both biblical and real-life implications, so what exactly is a pure heart?

What does it mean to have a pure heart?

The Bible references purity of heart several times.

The most known reference about being pure of heart comes from the bible. Matthew 5:8 says, “Blessed are the pure of heart, for they will see God.” This tells believers that keeping a pure heart will get them into the Kingdom of Heaven.

A pure heart is about spirituality that governs your thoughts, desires, purpose, and character. It also represents being one with God.

A pure heart has no hidden agendas, is not hypocritical and holds no ill will toward others.

Another scripture about purity of heart comes from Samuel 16:7, which says, “Man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” This implies that outward appearances are less important than what is inside you.

Psalm 24:4-5 says, “He who has clean hands and a pure heart, who does not lift up his soul to what is false and does not swear deceitfully. He will receive blessing from the Lord and righteousness from the God of his salvation.”

Also, in Psalm 51:10, the subject is referenced again with the words, “Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.” It’s clear that being pure of heart is necessary to reach singleness with Jesus Christ.

Having a pure heart in your waking life blesses everything you touch. To be known as a genuine, authentic person, who has no ulterior motives or hidden intentions, makes you a standout among your peers.

People know they can trust you and that you always do your best to avoid treating anyone unkindly or doing the wrong thing. And there are certain signs that indicate that your heart is pure.

Here are 20 signs you have a pure heart.

1. You smile a lot.

No one has a perfect life. There will always be ups and downs. But people with pure heart tend to smile more frequently. They don’t allow bad times to drag them down, and instead, show up with warm and welcoming energy.

2. Your generosity has no strings attached.

When you give to people, you do so without expecting to receive anything in return. You give because you really want to see other people happy. You have no ulterior motives other than to bring joy to others.

3. You’re respectful.

People of pure heart treat everyone with respect and dignity. They are aware that people come from various backgrounds, cultures and walks of life, and respect their individual perspectives.

4. You forgive easily.

If your heart is pure, holding a grudge is almost impossible. You try to see other peoples’ points of view and are always open to a peaceful resolution. Whether they deserve it or not, you are quick to forgive.

5. You can’t stay mad.

Anger brings negative energy that spreads like a virus. As a person with pure heart, you never hang on to anger and will bury the hatchet quickly.

6. Their happiness is your happiness.

You love to see other people happy, whether it’s directly from your actions or from something out of your control. You are quick to celebrate the wins of those around you. Lifting up and celebrating others is a big source of joy for you.

7. You’re helpful.

You are willing to do anything within reason to help other people. You often put aside your own needs in order to be of assistance to others, no matter how big or small the task may be.

8. You’re an optimist.

You see the glass as half-full, never half-empty. In your mind, everything happens for a reason, and you aim to take the lessons, even when bad things happen.

9. You’re trustworthy.

Your word is your bond and those close to you know they can trust you with their deepest, darkest secrets. You show up when you say you will and do what you promised.

10. You’re generous.

You are not one to covet material things for yourself. If you have anything you can spare for someone in need, you do it without hesitation. After all, a huge part of having a pure heart is finding joy in others’ happiness.

11. You show humility.

You never brag about yourself or your accomplishments. You remain thankful and humble for the opportunities you receive. You show gratitude when compliments come your way, but don’t let them go to your head.

12. You’re honest.

Honesty is one of the most important signs of a pure heart. You are a truth-teller and are prepared to deal with the consequences of your honesty. You are trusted to keep it real and be upfront with people.

13. You aren’t judgmental.

You don’t jump to conclusions about people and reserve your opinions until you get to know them. Even when others try to push their opinions about someone onto you, you reserve judgment and form your own conclusions.

14. You’re accountable.

You accept responsibility for your actions. Admitting when you are wrong and working to make amends is a sign that your heart is pure.

15. You have emotional intelligence.

You empathize with others. You know how to put yourself in their shoes and understand how they may be feeling. This is a signal that you have a heart of gold.

16. You’re resilient.

You are able to face any challenge that comes your way, never backing down or giving up. Instead, your resilience allows you to weather the storm. You don’t view these problems as a roadblock; rather, you use it as an opportunity to grow.

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17. You’re an excellent listener.

Because of your pure heart, you are able to listen to others without judgment. You don’t just hear what they are saying — you understand their feelings, and make it a point to stay fully present.

18. You have a child-like energy.

No matter how old you get, you always tend to have a vibrant energy. There is an innocence about you and an unending wonder you have about the world. You are curious and find joy in life’s simple pleasures, spreading that same positive light to others.

19. You think before you speak.

You take the time to think about your words before opening your mouth, as you know the impact words can have. You aim to communicate with empathy and compassion, and wish to uplift people, not bring them down. It means you have a strong understanding of how your actions affect others.

20. You have a good sense of humor.

A big sign of a pure heart is having a sense of humor. You spread the joy of laughter to everyone you know and use your humor as a way to connect on a deep, human level. Your humor also helps you navigate difficult circumstances.

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First Lady urges unified action to decrease HIV infections

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The First Lady, Mrs Rebecca Akufo-Addo, has urged a united front to fight HIV stigma, promote human rights, and ensure fair access to HIV prevention services for all.

She emphasised that issues such as discrimination, stigma, lack of access to healthcare, and socioeconomic disparity need to be addressed for Ghana to achieve effective HIV prevention.

“These barriers do not only worsen the spread of HIV but also perpetuate inequality and injustice, it is imperative that we address these barriers head-on with courage and determination if we are to succeed in our mission,” she said.

Mrs Akufo-Addo was speaking at the 2024 National HIV Prevention Summit in Accra on Thursday.

She said eradicating HIV stigma and discrimination called for a coordinated effort from all facets of society.

The summit was on the theme “Breaking Barriers, Building Bridges, Uniting for Effective HIV Response”

Mrs. Akufo-Addo stressed the need to give communities the knowledge, resources, and support they need to take charge of their health and well-being and protect themselves and their loved ones from HIV.

She said society must urgently and fully implement HIV prevention measures and make sure that everyone who needs them receives them.

Innovations in HIV prevention for all categories of persons currently include long-acting injectables, the vagina ring treatment and prevention of mother-to-child transmission protocols, which have been enhanced with highly effective antiretroviral medications and point-of-care screening devices.

Dr Kyeremeh Atuahene, Director General of the Ghana AIDS Commission said the fight against HIV and AIDS response was at a crucial stage, with scientific tools and proven strategies to eliminate the disease readily available to combat global economic challenges.

Insufficient financing, noncompliance with preventive measures, and persistent stigma and discrimination, he claimed, were preventing Ghana from providing the basic HIV prevention, treatment, care, and support services that are required to bring the epidemic under control by 2030.

Dr. Atuahene said HIV is acquired and transmitted daily in every community in Ghana.

“We have to talk about HIV prevention because new infections are very high since the sexual behaviours that drive HIV transmission and acquisition are increasingly pervasive with rising levels of high-risk sexual activities among both men and women in every region,” he said.

Dr. Atuahene said Ghana must prioritize the HIV prevention roadmap to establish a comprehensive national approach for preventative interventions and programmatic scalability, which would the country to meet the 2025 Global AIDS Targets.

He said in efforts to reduce new infections, the GAC intends to provide people-centred prevention models of care to those at high risk of acquiring HIV.

This year’s HIV Prevention Summit is expected to create a platform for stakeholders to develop a national agenda to prevent the disease.

Dr Atuahene said the summit would finalize the milestones developed by the national HIV prevention coalition during the 2025 HIV Prevention Road Map Review and Milestone Setting Workshop earlier in the year.

“Considering this, the summit will explore innovative technologies, and foster collaborations to strengthen HIV prevention strategies in Ghana while solidifying accountability mechanisms for HIV prevention progress,” he said.

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6 tiny signs you’ve finally discovered your life’s work

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What do I want to be when I grow up? What should I be doing with my life? Did I choose the right career? You may be surprised that as you get older, you still find yourself asking the same old questions — questions that you thought you would’ve answered years ago. But how do you go about finding answers to such profound inquiries?

The truth is, you’re never going to know with 100 percent certainty that you’ve successfully found and fulfilled your life purpose. That said, there are some pretty obvious signs of whether or not you are on the right track. Check out these tips for determining if your current career aligns with your life’s work.

Here are 6 tiny signs you’ve finally discovered your life’s work:

1. You enjoy it.

Well now, this is a no-brainer, isn’t it? Do you like what you are doing? Are you doing it because you want to do it? Or have you tricked yourself into believing this is the only option for you?

2. It energizes you.

One surefire sign you’re not fulfilling your soul’s desires is the yawning that takes place the second you sit down at your desk. If you feel like your work day is sucking the life out of you, it probably is. Our life’s work energizes us. It brings out the passion and endless energy we can sustain over time.

3. Time flies by.

If you find yourself looking at the clock every 3 seconds, chances are you’re not aligned with what your soul wants to do. When we do what we love, the time flies by. We have to force ourselves to stop.

4. You’re a natural.

Does your work come to you fairly easily? Or do you find yourself forcing and stumbling? You already have the natural gifts required to face your life journey. Don’t force a square peg into a round hole.

5. It’s not just your job.

Your life’s work is not just what you do to make money. It’s also your hobby, your passion, and your life. If you gag at the thought of reading an industry magazine for fun, it’s probably time for a change.

6. You can’t stop sharing.

If your work truly ignites you, if it feeds your soul, you will not be able to stop talking about it. You will want your family, friends, and the entire world to share in your joy.

If these signs ring true for you, congratulations! You are spending your days doing what you love to do. If you’ve missed the mark, don’t worry. Just because you’re not yet where you want to be, it doesn’t mean you’ve made a mistake. You can never actually be on the wrong path. Your path unfolds in front of you with every choice that you make. You’ve most likely ended up in this situation to gain additional knowledge, skills, or other lessons before the next leg of your journey. Now that you know there is more you want to pursue in this lifetime, what will you do about it?

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5 reasons why some men cannot stop cheating, according to an expert

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Back when Tiger Woods made headlines for his affairs with multiple women, he was back in the news not too long afterward.

This time, rumors spread that he was cheating on his (now ex) girlfriend, Lindsey Vonn.

It was easy to believe tabloid speculation that his cheating ways were the reason for their breakup, but according to People, Tiger and Lindsey broke up because it just “didn’t work out.” 

That’s normal, but sometimes, cheating is to blame. Why do men cheat? And is there a reason why married men cheat in particular?

Here are 5 reasons why some men cannot stop cheating, according to an expert:

1. That’s all they know.

Some men have been cheating since they were in middle school. It is part of who they are, and it’s so ingrained it has become part of their identity.

Without being a womanizer, they don’t know who they are. Learning to be monogamous takes work. They need counseling to unlearn this behavior and to work on it daily.

2. They have no moral issue with it.

Morally, some men don’t have a problem with hiring an escort. The guy who cheats on you probably feels the same way or he wouldn’t do it. It is easy to be remorseful after the fact. But can morals be taught? In most cases, no.

3. They have low self-esteem.

Cheaters tend to have low self-esteem — their ego rewards them when they can have multiple women. But cheaters need to learn to love themselves before they can love anyone else.

4. They’re addicted.

Some people are addicted to sex and love. They become obsessed and can’t stop thinking about it until they act on it. Sex and love addictions can be treated with individual and group therapy. However, they’re not going away by themselves. Men who cheat need to do the work to improve.

5. They’re self-sabotaging.

Some men tend to sabotage their lives when it’s going well. They may not know why they are doing or what they are doing and simply can’t stop.

There is always an unresolved issue from their past that causes a person to self-sabotage, so counseling and couples therapy help.

If your man fits into one of these categories, just know there is hope. He can change if he wants to change, has a good support system, and devotes himself to becoming a better person.

The change won’t happen overnight, he will be tempted to cheat while trying to change. Make sure to get help — change takes time.

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